End of an Era:Why we stopped living as fulltimers in an RV.

My husband and I lived as full timers in an RV for five years. It was a great adventure and we enjoyed it very much and it was well worth it. So why did we quit? I never really got into it beyond a brief post about the shoulder season. So let me elaborate. Manitoba is a very cold place. Winter arrives in October and stays until April. You can’t just stay south and wait for spring because if you aren’t physically inside the Canadian border for six months a year, you lose your health care and seniors benefits. You must be there for shoulder season. Now some years you get lucky and things are warm by April and life in a travel trailer is feasible. Sometimes it stays cold until well into May. Winter can arrive as soon as the first week of October and by November 1st it is really too cold to live in a typical RV. It’s marginally better in British Columbia but we froze up there by the end of November and I hate mountains.

One of the results of this fact of prairie life is that very few campgrounds are open during the shoulder season. It really isn’t feasible to have running water and sewer available in April or October because you never know when there will be a late spring freeze up or an early fall blizzard. Having your seasonal water and sewer running means taking a chance on a freeze up busting your pipes and costing you a lot of money. One consequence of this is almost all campground wait to open until the May long weekend (Victoria Day holiday) the third weekend of the month and close after Labor Day, the first weekend in September. Meanwhile residency requirements in Manitoba mean you must be here five full months and at least one other month in Canada. We did find one campground in Ile Des Chenes which has a very clever set up for folks like us.

They have a regular house on the property they live in year around and the owners hook up a very long hose and visit each trailer up to once a day to fill the trailer water tanks. They have their sewer system set up so if you do a full dump every day or so and release things in a big gush the water all runs to the big septic tank before it freezes. Their set up is brilliant but unusual, to say the least. Each spring they become the first stop for many Manitoba full timers for two to six weeks and they are the last stop before heading south. Wonderful as the folks there were who owned the place, we had two issues. First of all the campground itself is really nothing special, just a gravel parking lot where you are packed in so tightly you literally can reach out and touch your rig and the neighbour’s rig at the same time. Plus it was not nice for our dogs. They have strict rules that basically translate to your dogs should not poop on the ground unless you are standing there to put a bag under them before the drop. This is fine on a sunny afternoon in summer but really difficult at 2:00 am when it is really cold and you’re in your pyjamas. The place also doesn’t feel like home. It feels like the place you stay before you move to where you want to be. Who wants to spend 12 weeks a year that way?

The other problem is that living in a  trailer when it is below freezing at night is just plain miserable. Due to the small space, humidity becomes a constant issue. Anything touching the walls gets wet and mould and mildew is something you must always on alert for and clean up. Heating is uneven and because trailers are simply not made for cold weather you alternate between being overheated when the furnace runs and freezing when it isn’t, mostly freezing. I would spend those shoulder seasons in long underwear, undershirts, a warm vest, a fleece jacket and having a hat on my head. Showering was a torture of shivering and drying meant feeling chilled until my hair dried or using the blow hair dryer after turning everything else in the trailer off because it always blew the fuse. My husband sat at his computer with an electric heater on the floor between his feet. Now admittedly we could have solved that problem by either buying a better trailer especially constructed to take colder weather or just being braver and putting up with more, but I just didn’t want to. Full time RV living is supposed to be nice, not awful.

Even once you find a campground to call home for the season you can run into problems we never anticipated. Most of the so called seasonal campgrounds in Manitoba are meant to to be a place you park your trailer and visit on weekends. We spent three years being seasonal folks and two of three landlords expressed considerable frustration with the fact that we were living in our trailer all the time instead of just on weekends. One fellow even insinuated we had lied to him and threatened to increase our fees because we were costing him more than double in electricity costs. The lots of these seasonal places are by in large really small. So again you are left with being within arm’s reach of your neighbour. It’s hardly living close to nature. You are simply in a more crowded city suburb with neighbours much closer than in a stick house. These campgrounds also had all kinds of rules and regulations everyone must abide by, most of them restrictive or just plain silly, like no potted plants. Many of these rules had to do with our dogs and cat. One place would have perfectly fine but he had a rule that no animal must ever be left alone in a trailer for any length of time, even to sit on the beach nearby, even if the trailer is parked in a semi permanent way and has air-conditioning. Another owner simply couldn’t abide cats, any cats, anytime, for any reason. Yet another owner had some paranoid hatred of mosquitoes which he dealt with by aerial spraying of the entire campground with malathion every evening. Getting away from the crowding by hauling the trailer out to go visit a better spot was feasible in some of the places we parked in but in others it was difficult. One place you could only move your trailer in and out after the owner got out his forklift and to say he strongly discouraged us from going anywhere that summer would be a gross understatement. We had to have internet for our work and sanity and several prospects had absolutely no cell phone or internet severely limiting our potential areas to stay at.

It seemed like every place we lived in or explored and decided not to live in, had an owner with some particular neurosis or a need to cheat us. We even had one fellow outright cheat us. He sent us pictures of a lot he had to rent but when we arrived we found ourselves stuck with a much smaller, very ugly gravel space with no lawn, no view and even less privacy. He had many big lovely lots with lots of privacy. They were taken and we were informed we were on a waiting list until a better spot opened. One would open any day and we would get it. Our wonderful picture window was left a mere six inches from the side of our nearest neighbour’s bedroom. And we were stuck with the horrible horrible arrangement because all these places in Manitoba demand you pay the entire year’s rental up front with no refunds if you change your mind. Even when it was time for us to leave, he tried to insist we leave the trailer with him, rent a place in the south, and pay the $200 to reserve for next year since he was absolutely certain a better spot would open up and we were on the waiting list. He basically would not help us get our trailer out until we agreed to pay the reservation fee. We paid it because we wanted to be assured a spot next year in case we couldn’t find anything better, and to mollify him about moving us out. Of course, as soon as we decided we weren’t coming back, the fee was forfeit. I’m very glad we didn’t end up back there because some of our former neighbours told us the following year he simply chopped all the bigger lots into half of what they had been, doubled the number of trailers he packed in, raised the fees and told people if they didn’t like it, they were free to go elsewhere.

We eventually concluded there was no seasonal campground we could stand to live in available in the area we wanted to be in. Now having been all over North American I would have to say the neurotic difficult campground owners with silly regulations are not all that common. They seem to be mostly confined to Manitoba. We stayed at many truly wonderful campgrounds in the USA where the owners were both professional and easy going and things were set up properly. I would have very happily stayed at one of them for the entire summer and never given up being a full timer. I suspect because Manitobans have such a short summer, they don’t have a clue what they are missing and so these owners can get away with stuff that would leave them out of business in the south.

Manitoba’s provincial parks and the one national park are really lovely places. They also restrict how long you can stay to 14 to 21 days and most are limited to the May long weekend to Labour Day weekend. I suppose we could have wandered from one campground to another over the course of the summer. People we know do this and manage just fine. However it didn’t suit us. For one thing only two of these campgrounds have internet and they get fully booked for practically every weekend. We had two lovely seasons working as campground hosts at Bird’s Hill Provincial park and we would have happily done that forever. A full time spot with a full hook up in a big beautiful lot with lots of privacy and all the amenities, but two years was an absolute and strict limit.Even then it was only second week in May to first week in October so we were still dealing with a shoulder season.

We tried looking at alternatives that would be a compromise. One possibility was purchasing a lot in cottage country and living on that. The problem with that was none of the cottage lots will let you put in a trailer and stay in it. The zoning is very strict. You purchase or lease a cottage lot and you put in a cottage with a foundation and meet specific code requirements and spend a minimum amount of money. We tried looking at municipal lots in small towns but came up against the same thing. RVs are simply not welcome as full-time homes. We own 152 acres of farmland and we considered trying to make that habitable but the cost was very high because putting in electricity and water and sewer was going to be tens of thousands of dollars. We would still have had the zoning issues to circumvent. And there was simply no way to get reliable internet.

I was in the process of negotiating another summer seasonal. Based on our previous experiences I had a long list of questions to ask. I also wanted the contract up front and I asked for clarifications on specific rules. The owner was being very patient and I think it might have worked except that there would be no water or sewer until the May long weekend and therefore we would have to be in the Ile Des Chennes gravel parking lot for a longer stretch than we would have liked. They also closed the September long weekend.

I spotted the ad for the house we are in now by pure accident. It was in a small town we were already very familiar with. It was near our farmland. It had a very long drive leading to the garage, absolutely perfect for parking the trailer on. It was in a location we were happy to live in. It had a huge double lot with lots of room for the dogs, a garden and places to take long walks and easy access to beaches. It also had internet, clean, abundant, nearly unlimited internet. After five years of constant struggle with intermitant and unreliable internet we were finally in a position to have real internet. And we were able to come home March 15th to a warm and insulated house and stay past October without freezing. Best of all it was cheap enough we could buy it without a mortgage.

We have been in this small town house for two summers now and it has been an ideal compromise. I have only one real regret. There is a loss of our freedom. One of the nicest things about being full-time is you move and leave everything behind. We can no longer leave it all behind. There is this wee house sitting in Alonsa waiting for us. We have to worry about finding someone to watch it and check it and worry about what if someone breaks in. We do have a place to store a lot of stuff we rarely used that we used to haul around, room for company, and we can run our life the way we want it in our own home on our own lot. So overall the benefits far outweigh the disadvantage. Last summer we were too busy finishing the book and getting settled in the house to travel much. This summer we took the trailer out three times for stays in forests which has given us very nice breaks and gave us back some of our sense of lost freedom. Life in the country has some challenges but mostly great pleasures. I have been posting about those in the blog I moved to tumbleweeds tumbling. You can read about those there.

 

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Pullback

This blog of mine is the one I started with. It is mainly about being a full timer in an RV traveling over north America. I started a daily blog for my family to follow which morphed in the blog I use actively now after we bought our house. I am really not a full timer anymore since we have the stick house. So if you have a hankering to see what I am up with, please pop over to

https://tumbleweedstumbling.wordpress.com

Thanks!

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Home – Our Little House on the Prairie

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We will be taking possession of this tiny little house in Alonsa Manitoba April 29th. As you can see it has a great big driveway for our rig. We decided to buy the house which is almost exactly 2X the floor space of our travel trailer because of the difficulty with the shoulder season in Manitoba and finding campground that were nice with big lots that didn’t charge a fortune and were open longer than Victoria Day to Labor Day long weekend. We now have a perfect summer campground and a place to store some stuff and when the day comes we can’t go south each winter, we will have our retirement home. We are currently in South Dakota on the trip home.

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A Worthy Cause

I have never before used my blog to ask for funds for a worthy cause but this is an emergency and involves something I care deeply about, which is saving sea turtles and educating people about the marine life in the world. Please have a look and if you can donate and pass it along to anyone who might be interested in helping.

Thank you!

https://www.tilt.com/campaigns/clean-water-for-gulf-specimen-aquarium/contributors

see it on You Tube

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My new toy – Washing Machine Suitable for a Travel Trailer

Laundry is one of those chores that no one really likes but needs to get done. For the last five years we have collected our laundry until we had nothing left to wear and then made a trip to a laundromat where we would wash, dry and fold and use up an afternoon. We often had issues with laundry getting moldy or smelly after sitting for a week. It’s always been a chore and the cost adds up. Typically we spend $10 – $15 a week in laundry fees.

We had two events that finished us with doing without our own washing machine. First we were in a lovely little spot in Manitoba and we had to drive an hour and a half to find a laundromat. Second the cat decided to barf up a hairball on our bed and we had no linen. Yuck!

After researching various options and comparing prices we decided on a Panda Small Compact Portable Washing Machine Pan30 Drain By Gravity. It is a washer/spin dryer. As you can see, it is really small and sits nicely in our tub for washing. We got it for under $200 USD including shipping from Amazon. When not in use, the machine stores in a nook in our bedroom. It is remarkably light and easy to lift. I have no trouble moving it by myself. The weight is only 28lbs. And the measurements are a mere 22.83 × 14.17 × 25.59.

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I have scent allergies, another issue in a public laundromat so we use unscented products only. It takes 1/4 cup of detergent to do all the laundry. By putting it in the bathtub I can use the shower head to fill and the gravity drain which goes into the bathtub drain. I can also see us using the machine outdoors in the right location.

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While the machine fills I carefully sort the clothing into whites and darks and then subdivide those into heavily soiled and lightly soiled. Towels are the heaviest so those we do separately. I run the wash cycle for fifteen minutes.

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One of the nice things about the machine is that it is possible to reuse the wash water. I take the laundered stuff, squeeze it out by hand and then put it in the spinner and then add more laundry. In this way the amount of water used is really low, which will become important in same places we camp. The spinner can only spin one large item like a towel or pair of jeans but even so, it quickly spins out the load. As I do the spinning I can set aside and toss back in anything that didn’t get clean, like white socks. Once the whites are washed, I drain the machine, and refill it with clean water. I then rinse the whites. After rinsing the water is pretty soapy so I throw in the towels into the now soapy rinse water and, if necessary add some more soap. Once the towels are done, I continue with the dark stuff. It usually takes one more tub full to rinse the dark stuff and then one last tub full to rinse the towels. It took a bit of practice to optimize the whole thing but I can do a typical 2-3 days of laundry using four fills, or about 20 gallons total. I do the spinning for a full 5 minutes after the rinse and the laundry comes out almost dry.

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We will not entirely give up using laundromats. The machine is too small for large blankets. I did do our sheets but my husband’s terry cloth housecoat was almost too much for the poor little thing. I also think it would be inconvenient to be using the machine “on the road” when driving each day. It is a bit of a pain to not be able to toss things in and leave and then come back and have them all washed. I may regret not trying to find weight and space for the 81lb Panda small automatic which costs twice as much. So far I don’t. I run each wash cycle for 15 minutes and in between moving laundry from sorted piles, to wash to spin to rinse to spin, I do dishes, cook, or any number of other chores. Best of all, no more smelly mouldy laundry in the corner waiting for laundromat day.

(Next post the matching dryer.)

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More Stuff That Works – RV Black Water Macerator Pump

An RV black water macerator pump is not something you use while staying at a typical full service campsite. This device IS beyond handy while parking in places like the driveway of friends and relatives without RV hookups. At our current stop, we are parked in a horse corral behind a bunkhouse. The macerator works by sucking the black water yuck out through a macerator that resembles a garbage disposal in a sink. By first macerating the yuck, you get a uniform stinky liquid that can easily go into any toilet, sink or other direct connection to the sewer system. Warning, it will stink until the brown water is gone. We are dumping into the toilet of the bunkhouse. It stinks until we’re done and the toilet is flushed. Since we are also showering in the bunkhouse, we only need to empty the black water once a week. We are using our trailer to work and cook in while we stay, so this means we can also use the bathroom in the trailer without worrying about how to dump. We have also used the macerator while boon docking to dump before pulling out. (Always check first, especially in the north, to make sure you are not dumping your raw sewage into a rainwater disposal.)

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The macerator itself fits into a nice little black box in which I also keep a dedicated needle nose plier, a spare fuse, and a container of sanitizing gel. I also recommend having two sets of spare impeller parts. The impeller has a bad habit of failing without warning and this is one job you don’t want to be stuck waiting for spare parts for. One spare part is seen with the macerator box. I have had to replace the impeller twice in five years. Spare parts are available only when ordered on line. Replacing it is actually relatively easy as long as you make note of how you took it apart so that you can put it back together the same way.

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Standard RV sewer outlet. We arrived in heavy rain and trailer sunk. Normally it’s not that low to the ground. We are using the $39 sewer cap add on since I toasted our grey water valve by trying to force it while frozen last year in Washington state. We were quoted $400 for replacing the grey water valve so we decided to just add this thing on instead. I recommend this addition as one of one’s must have spare parts, just in case you are ever left with damaged valves and need to move without dripping all over the highway.

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The macerator is hooked up with fresh water intake on one side a standard hose. The fresh water intake has its own flow control valve (green in this picture). The output side connects to a standard garden hose. The manufacturers recommends no more than 50ft of hose but we have found it works just fine with 100 ft. We hook up to the batteries in the front box. The handle control has a fuse in it so if you hook it up backwards the fuse burns out instead of the device. Idiot proof. I keep a box of spare fuses and one in the macerator box because of my own idiot moments.

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The procedure is open the black water and grey water valves first and let the grey water back flush into the black water side. This prevents clogging and makes sure there is enough liquid for the macerator to macerate the solids. After a couple of minutes, when the glugging mix noise stops, start the motor. The mixture is sucked out. The pump noise changes when it has no water. The pump requires flowing water to stay cool so you need to shut it off as soon as the yuck is pumped out to avoid burning out the motor. Close the black water valve and then open fresh water intake valve to backfill the grey water side with fresh water. Run the pump to clean. Close the grey water valve. The repeat the flush for macerator. If you let the fresh water intake run through the pump until the hose is thoroughly flushed as well, life is much more pleasant at disconnect time. (If I am camping at a place without a fresh water connection I will take a shower with the plug in tub and after pumping out the black water, close the black water valve, and pull the plug using the shower water in the tub for the flush.)

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As you can see from this photo, if properly flushed using the fresh water intake valve, you are not stuck with anything too yucky when you take the macerator off. However there is always some hair that needs to be removed. This is what the dedicated needle nose pliers are for. (The pliers are handy for changing the fuse when I am idiot too.) Repacking all the wiring is the hardest part. Elapsed time is typically 20 minutes from start to finish.

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Typical RV lights as No-See-Um and other insect control device.

One of the not so nice things about arriving in our winter location in Florida is we are parked in a lower spot near a marsh and the No-See-Ums are a problem. We have No-See-Um screening which keeps most of the nasty little biters out but some always follow us in. We accidentally found a neat solution. If the light covers are set with a small opening (2mm) then the bugs are more attracted to the light than they are to us, and they crawl inside and promptly die instead of biting. While we were in Alabama we got inundated with Lady Bugs and we tried to catch and release as many as possible before we left. However, we kept finding Lady Bugs in our trailer for days afterward. Soon after we arrived in Florida I set the lights slightly open to catch No-See-Ums and soon had two more Lady Bugs. As you can see in the picture, the trick works using both incandescent and LED diode lights.

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Lady  Bugs and some No-See-Ums in the yellowish incandescent light on the left and No-See-Ums caught in one hour under bluish LED diode lights. The bugs will be completely desiccated to an easy to dispose of form that only requires removing the light cover and then tipping the contents in a waste basket. I prefer to wash the light covers after emptying. I do the light covers once a week after washing the dishes unless a cover is really full.

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View of standard RV lights showing how much space to leave on left and the whole light on the right.

A simple easy way to control flying insect pests.

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